Memorial Day: A Day To Reflect Or Just A Long Lazy Weekend?

By Paul Larson

MILLBRAE – In the weeks leading up to Memorial Day, observed on the last Monday of every May, many of us like to plan ahead for this long weekend so we can “live it up.” Some of us think of Memorial Day as a precursor to summer and a time to rev up the party. Then there are those of us who like to spend this time with our families at picnics or other activities. Some go on extended weekend trips of wine tasting or spa relaxation. Many observe the holiday by taking advantage of Memorial Day sales and go shopping, or by attending popular annual events such as festivals or concerts. Still, some stay home to avoid all the weekend shenanigans. There are others, though, who prefer to reflect on the purpose and meaning of Memorial Day.

Remembering those who gave their lives in service of their country—whether while protecting the United States of America and its citizens, in many cases protecting citizens of other countries, or while serving in various other capacities—is what we all should make a point of thinking about as we’re enjoying our long holiday weekend.

There are a good number of families who have firsthand experience with a loved one losing his or her life as a member of the Armed Forces. For those families, Memorial Day is a little different. They may spend that weekend at a Memorial Service for those who’ve served, or they may prefer to quietly visit their loved one at the cemetery. Some will go to church and pray, and others will reflect privately in a quiet place. Then again, there are others who will participate fully in the Memorial Day weekend surrounded by family and friends. There is no one way to mourn, honor or celebrate a lost loved one’s life.

It’s easy to associate Memorial Day with members of the Armed Services who were lost in recent memory, such as those serving in many parts of the world, including the Middle East, Viet Nam, Korea, or during World War II. For a good many, it was during World War I. But it is vital for us to remember that the sacrifices made by those during more historical conflicts are equally important to reflect on and learn about. It’s because of those who fought hard to keep our country together and fought valiantly to create this country as a whole that we live the way we do and that our country is looked upon as a beacon of freedom. It is for these reasons that we have floods of immigrants, legal and illegal, wanting to take great risks to live here. Just the fact that this is happening shows that our country has qualities that are remarkable among the rest, and exists due to those who’ve given up their lives to create and preserve it.

This poem by “Emily Toma” sums it up:
Remember those who served before.
Remember those who are no more.
Remember those who serve today.
Remember them as we eat and play.
Remember our protectors who
are not home today.
Remember them all on Memorial Day.

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